in 1995 in my mid forties, I experienced my very first erectile disfunction and change of life in men that is today called Andropause. Andropause is a condition that is associated with the decrease in the male hormone testosterone. It is unlike menopause in that the decrease in testosterone and the development of symptoms is more gradual than what occurs in women. But going back to 1995, there was no such term back then. Actually during that time, there was no internet, no viagra, no cell phones, in short, erectile disfunction and change of life in men, was a well kept secret that I suspect was guarded in men by shame and a sense of failure. As man of Latin American descent, it felt like a betrayal by not just other men but by Life itself.